Today

It has been 5 days since I agreed to cancel the transaction, and I've never get a reply from her ever since. I am wondering if she sent it back to me, or just disappeared? Strange people. Should have at least left me a note so I know what was going on. No more ebays, a woman was sued for selling C bags on ebay. Hubby was telling me not to sell it, but then I am not a real seller, it was just for fun ( but its not fun) and the woman who got sues probably sold a hundred, she used to work at the C store.

Today I heard another friend's getting married, C. A is pregnant, B is getting married, and so is C. I am so happy for all of them. I wonder who will be D.

Noah was not behaving today. We went to the mall to get a mouse for my laptop, but he wouldn't sit in his stroller. I had to carry him and push the stroller! We left soon after because I can't tolerate that behaviour. I guess he is growing up, stubbornly. I better get some nap before he wakes up..ZzZzz tired.

Happy, and happy news

Just 3 days ago, one of my best friend told me she is pregnant. I was happy. And then I was very happy. The more I thought of it I got even happier. She was like a piece of white paper, very pure, very naive. More naive than I was. And then there she is, pregnant. I've always thought she'll be a vigrin forever, I guess not anymore.

The next day, my other best friend told me she is getting married! I was again, very happy. I wonder if there are more good news coming. Anyway I am truly happy for her, finally getting married after so many year. I stopped asking her when is she getting married, because I've asked too many times, and then one day she just told me, I'm getting married!

Those were the 2 happy news. I am very happy for my friends, getting married, and having babies. I hope the best for them, and many happy years ahead. I am very very tempted to fly back end of the year, but we'll have to see how things goes when the time is nearer, can hardly plan anything with a toddler hanging around by your side all the time.

Signing off for the day,
I am still very happy for them ;) HAPPY

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Me and My Bags, again

I'm getting crazy, not that I needed more bags, but I got them at a very very good deal. Can you believe these are damaged items too? The straps were missing, so it's damaged... woo hoo, new bags for me ;) Don't really caer for the straps, I can use them without the longer straps anyway.

Noah likes to play with mommy's bag, this is part of my bags.. hehe. My friend told me I have to have special shelves for them, well I do..

The 2 tiny dots of damaged marking.. I don't think anybody can tell if I do not point it out.

Well, at least sometimes, some things makes me happier. Had an awful time dealing with the buyer last week, and i stepped on my glasses, and now it's hard to find a new replacement because my nose is so flat that most glasses slide down easily. The buyer is still ignoring me, after I agreed to cancel. See this is what real life, when they needed somethign they come begging, and then ignore you when they got what they want. Once again, I'm being too naive. Should have listend to my friends advise. Well, a good experience learned. And expensive one

My Damaged bag

These were the items I bought yesterday. Here you go Mel, as requested ;) to be posted for viewing. Can anyone tell where is the 'damaged' area? I'm loving it, and the price. It's a steal.

The wristlet will be for grandma's birthday present, it was a good deal too. I hope she will like it... I'm sure she will

It's a long long day

First of all, thank you for your opinions, on the previous topic. My friends really made me feel better, and sleep better. I am the type that worry too much and wouldn't be able to sleep unless problem is solved.

This morning she msg me again, asking me to let her return. I finally gave in. I knew I shouldn't because that was the term, but I m soft hearted person, and I believe in good karma. I don't lose much if I let her return, and she will be happier. I might be in the risk of the item do not arrive in good condition, or do not arrive at all, but well, it will be charity and an expensively paid lesson if that happens.

I do believe in good vibes and karma. I believe that if I do good, nothing bad will happen to me, and otherwise. I do not want anything bad happen to me and my family just because of I make somebody not happy, and I like to see everybody happy, foolish but I am. I hope she is not a bad person, but as I said, if she is bad she will get it back at the end, what comes around goes around right...

Anyway I had a very busy day today. Hubby took the day off. I started the day with my lil baby jumping into the bed giving me a big smile. I went to get groceries and post some wristlets to my bro and mom, and aunty. Then we went to get me this new laptop that I m trying to get use to it now. Hubby was complaining that I spent too much time on the computer, now we can be in the same room, or use the computer without fighting.

Then I went to the C store, bought a new damaged bag for a fraction of the price. I love the girl 'Miss F'. She found me this new C bag with 2 tiny dots, black leather, retail at 398$, I paid $95+ for it! What a steal! I'm loving it, and loving her. I don't mind those scratches because all my bags got them eventually. And I was so sad afterwards, when I returned from the gym, as I was rushing home, I dropped my sunglasses on the ground and stepped on it. The good news is, it's not broken. The bad news, it has big scratches. Well, on the bright side, the sunglasses lasted for almost a year. Normally none of my glasses last over a year. I guess I'm lucky afterall!

Be Good or Be Bad?

I've been selling on Ebay again. I know, I know I shouldn't. I really shouldn't. They always bring me troubles. Ebay emailed me about their free listing, and I posted some items, just for fun, again. I never thought it will be sold so quickly... and there were people trying to buy them.

I was very happy that it got sold, although I really liked the bag, but I was happier to make $100 out of it. So I shipped it the same day, and after 5 day, the buyer messaged me, telling me she wants to return it, because she didn't like it.

It was written there, returns not accepted, and yet she wants to return. Just because she didn't like it so she wants to return? She should have read carefully before buying anything. I feel really bad for her because she didn't like it, but then it's not my fault right?

Other people told me that I should just ignore her, business is business, and not to get emotional with your business, but I feel really bad. Not really that bad, just bad. I believe in karma, what if something bad happens to me because I won't let her return? I don't really lose much if I let her return, other than more troubles to fill up the forms and all the money pending.. and might have risk, if the items never come back?

Tell me what should I do? To let her return or just ignore her? Really won't lose that much, other than my time and trouble...But it wasn't my fault that she didn't like it and she should have read carefully that it is not returnable... sigh..
What should I do? Be the good person or bad person?